Chapter 07 of 17
Loving her in YOUR language is not loving her — it's loving yourself. Learn hers and speak it on purpose.
Reflect
Answer honestly — your responses save to this device only. There are no right answers, only true ones.
Do I actually know her primary love language — or am I guessing?
Which love language do I default to because it is easiest for me?
When she has felt unloved recently, what was I doing (or not doing)?
What small daily act would make her feel cherished — and am I doing it?
How has the way she receives love shifted since we got married?
What is one love language I have stopped speaking that I used to do well?
Act
Pick one. Do it before Sunday. Check it off when it's done.
Discuss
These prompts are designed for connection — not debate. Listen more than you talk.
Take the love languages quiz separately, then compare and discuss surprises.
Each share: 'I feel most loved when you…' (3 examples).
Trade childhood stories about how love was expressed in your home.
"Loving her in her language costs you effort but earns you intimacy you cannot fake."