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Chapter 05 of 17

Fitness & Health

Caring for your body is a love letter to your wife. She needs you strong, present, and around for a long time.

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Reflect

Six questions for the man in the mirror

Answer honestly — your responses save to this device only. There are no right answers, only true ones.

01

What habit am I keeping that is silently shortening my time with my wife?

02

Where am I expecting her to carry mental or emotional weight I should be lifting?

03

When was my last full physical, and why am I avoiding scheduling it?

04

What does my energy look like when I get home — and is that the man she deserves?

05

What one health change would she most want me to make if she could pick?

06

How am I modeling health for our kids without lecturing about it?

Act

Action steps you can lead this week

Pick one. Do it before Sunday. Check it off when it's done.

Discuss

Bring her into the conversation

These prompts are designed for connection — not debate. Listen more than you talk.

1

Each share: 'When do you feel most cared for physically by me?'

2

Write a 30-day health pact you'll do together. Sign it.

3

Talk about a health fear you carry — without trying to fix it.

"Strength of body protects the strength of your marriage. Lead by example, not by lecture."