Chapter 04 of 17
A husband without a vision drifts. A husband with a shared vision leads his wife somewhere worth going.
Reflect
Answer honestly — your responses save to this device only. There are no right answers, only true ones.
If nothing changed about our trajectory, where will we be in 5 years — and is that good enough?
What dream of hers am I quietly not supporting because it's inconvenient for me?
What conversation about the future have I been avoiding because it might require me to change?
Where am I chasing my ambition at the cost of our marriage?
What is the one big goal I want us to commit to in writing this year?
What fear about the future have I never said out loud to my wife?
Act
Pick one. Do it before Sunday. Check it off when it's done.
Discuss
These prompts are designed for connection — not debate. Listen more than you talk.
Each finish the sentence: 'In five years, I hope we…' Read aloud, no rebuttal.
Sketch the life you'd build if money was solved. Compare drawings.
Talk through: 'What would I regret not doing together?'
"When she knows where you are leading, she can run with you instead of guessing behind you."