Chapter 10 of 17
The men in your life are either pulling you toward your wife or away from her. There is no neutral.
Reflect
Answer honestly — your responses save to this device only. There are no right answers, only true ones.
Which of my friendships is making me a worse husband — and what will I do about it?
Do I have at least one man who knows the real state of my marriage?
Am I friends with men who honor their wives, or men who roll their eyes at theirs?
How am I prioritizing 'the boys' over time with her right now?
What couple do we want to build a deeper friendship with this year?
Where is she lonely in friendships — and am I helping or hindering?
Act
Pick one. Do it before Sunday. Check it off when it's done.
Discuss
These prompts are designed for connection — not debate. Listen more than you talk.
Each share: 'A friend I'm worried about and a friend I'm thankful for.'
Map your friendships on paper — who feeds the marriage, who drains it?
Plan one hospitality night a month: open your home on purpose.
"The right circle around you will sharpen the husband you are becoming."