Chapter 11 of 17
Faithfulness is built in the small choices long before it is tested in the big ones.
Reflect
Answer honestly — your responses save to this device only. There are no right answers, only true ones.
What boundary with the opposite sex have I been quietly bending lately?
What am I consuming — content, conversations, scrolling — that I would not show her?
Who in my life knows enough about my temptations to actually warn me?
Where is my heart drifting emotionally that needs to come back home?
What past pattern could threaten our marriage if I don't put guardrails on it?
How would I want to be confronted if she ever sensed me drifting?
Act
Pick one. Do it before Sunday. Check it off when it's done.
Discuss
These prompts are designed for connection — not debate. Listen more than you talk.
Each share: 'What makes you feel most secure in our commitment?'
Talk through guardrails for travel, work, social media. Write them down.
Answer: 'What is the warning sign you'd want me to hear from you?'
"Build the fence before the storm hits. Fidelity is a husband's daily, deliberate choice."